What began as a seemingly offhand comment from a popular Nigerian comedian has now turned into a firestorm of debate over the limits of comedy and the persistence of misogyny in digital spaces.
On Monday, Nasboi real name Lawal Michael Nasiru Bolaji posted a tweet that read:
“Stay away from broke girls. Some of them only want to benefit from you and bring nothing to the table.”
While his fans may be used to his tongue-in-cheek humor, this particular remark struck a nerve, igniting widespread backlash and a heated conversation on social media about gender bias, classism, and the role of comedians in shaping societal values.
Humor or Harm?
The tweet quickly went viral, but not for the reasons Nasboi may have intended. Critics argue that what was meant to be humorous actually reveals a more troubling mindset — one that reinforces harmful gender stereotypes under the guise of “real talk.”
“Comedy is not an excuse for casual misogyny,” said Lagos-based activist and media commentator Tolu Akinbiyi. “When public figures make jokes like these, they validate deeply harmful ideas that women must be financially successful to deserve love or respect.”
Others questioned why the focus was solely on “broke girls,” rather than addressing broader systemic issues such as unemployment, economic inequality, and societal pressure.
Double Standards in Dating Culture
The controversy has also reignited debate around double standards in modern dating culture — particularly in Nigeria, where men are traditionally expected to be providers, even as they now demand financial contribution from their partners.
“For years, men have expected women to look good, stay home, and depend on them financially,” said Nkechi Emeka, a relationship therapist based in Abuja. “Now that women are pushing back or asking for support, they’re being shamed for not having enough?”
The Cost of Influence
With over a million followers online, Nasboi is not just a comedian — he’s an influencer. And in today’s hyperconnected world, every word matters.
Experts argue that influencers must be more mindful of the narratives they spread, even in jest.
“We’re not saying comedians should stop being funny,” said social media strategist David Ogundipe. “But there’s a thin line between humor and harmful messaging. It’s about knowing where that line is — especially when you have a platform.”
No Apologies Yet
As of press time, Nasboi has not responded to the backlash or issued any form of clarification. While some fans continue to defend the tweet as “harmless banter,” others are calling for accountability — not cancellation, but a recognition of the impact such statements can have on public perception.